Homosexuality in ancient Rome often differs markedly from the contemporary West. Latin lacks words that would precisely translate " homosexual and " heterosexual ". Roman society was patriarchaland Honosexuality in ancient greece freeborn male citizen possessed political liberty libertas and the right to rule both himself and his household familia.
The conquest mentality and "cult of virility" shaped same-sex relations. Roman men were free to enjoy sex
Honosexuality in ancient greece other males without a loss of masculinity or social status, as long as they took the dominant or penetrative role.
Acceptable male partners were slaves and former slaves, prostitutes Honosexuality in ancient greece, and entertainers, whose Honosexuality in ancient greece placed them in the nebulous social realm of infamiaexcluded from the normal protections accorded a citizen even if they were technically free. Although Roman men in general Honosexuality in ancient greece to have preferred youths between the ages of 12 and 20 as sexual partners, freeborn male minors were off limits at certain periods of Rome, Honosexuality in ancient greece professional prostitutes and entertainers might remain sexually available well into adulthood.
Same-sex relations among women are far less documented. Although Roman women of the upper classes were educated and are known to have both written poetry and corresponded with male relatives, very few fragments of anything that might have been written by women survived.
Honosexuality in ancient greece took little interest in how Honosexuality in ancient greece experienced sexuality in general. During the Republica Roman citizen's political liberty libertas was defined in part by the right to preserve his body from physical compulsion, including both corporal punishment and sexual abuse.
Williams has noted, "the prime directive of masculine sexual behavior for Romans". It was expected and socially acceptable for a freeborn Roman man to want sex with both female and male partners, as long as he took the penetrative role. Both women and young men were considered normal objects of desire, but outside marriage a man was supposed to act on his desires only slaves, prostitutes who were often slavesand the infames.
Gender did not determine whether a sexual partner was acceptable, as long as a man's enjoyment did not encroach on another man's integrity. It was immoral to have sex with another freeborn man's
Honosexuality in ancient greece, his marriageable daughter, his underage son, or with the man himself; sexual use of another man's slave was subject to the owner's permission.
Lack of self-control, including in managing one's sex lifeindicated that a man was incapable of governing others; too much indulgence in "low sensual pleasure" threatened to erode the elite male's identity as a cultured person. Homoerotic themes are Honosexuality in ancient greece to Latin literature during a period of increasing Greek influence on Roman culture in Honosexuality in ancient greece 2nd century BC.
Honosexuality in ancient greece attitudes differed from those of the Romans primarily in idealizing eros between Honosexuality in ancient greece male citizens of equal status, though usually with a difference of age see " Pederasty in ancient Greece ". An attachment to a male outside the family, seen as a positive influence among the Greeks, within Roman society threatened the authority of the paterfamilias. In the Imperial era, a perceived increase in passive homosexual behavior among free males was associated with anxieties about the subordination of political liberty to the emperor, and led to an increase in executions and corporal punishment.
The consul Quintus Lutatius Catulus was among a circle of poets who made short, light Hellenistic poems fashionable. One of his few surviving fragments is a poem of desire addressed to a male with a Greek name. Homoerotic themes occur throughout the works of poets writing during the reign of AugustusHonosexuality in ancient greece elegies by Tibullus  and Propertius the second Eclogue of Vergiland several poems by Horace.
In the AeneidVergil draws on the Greek tradition of pederasty in a military setting by portraying the love between Nisus and Euryalus whose military valor marks them as solidly Roman men viri.
By the end of the Augustan period OvidRome's leading literary figure, was alone among Roman figures in proposing a radically new agenda focused on love between men and women: Several other Roman writers, however, expressed a bias in favor of males when sexual activity with males and females were compared, including JuvenalPlutarchStrato and the poet Martialwho often derided women as sexual partners and celebrated the charms
Honosexuality in ancient greece pueri.
Representations of male—male and female—female sex are less common in art of ancient Rome than are male—female sex acts. A frieze at the Suburban Baths in Pompeii shows a series of sixteen sex scenes, including same-sex couples, and same-sex pairings as a part group sex acts. Threesomes in Roman art typically show two men penetrating a woman, but one of the Suburban scenes has one man entering a woman from the rear while he in turn receives Honosexuality in ancient greece sex from a man standing behind him.
This scenario is also by Catullus, Carmen 56, who Honosexuality in ancient greece it humorous. Roman attitudes toward male nudity differ from those of the ancient Greeks, who regarded idealized portrayals of the nude male as an expression of masculine excellence. The wearing
Honosexuality in ancient greece the toga marked a Roman man as a free
Honosexuality in ancient greece. At the same time, the phallus was displayed ubiquitously in the form of the fascinuma Honosexuality in ancient greece charm thought to ward off malevolent forces; it became a customary decoration, found widely in the ruins of Pompeiiespecially in the form of wind chimes tintinnabula.
The Warren Cup is a piece of convivial silver, usually dated to the time of the Julio-Claudian dynasty 1st century ADthat depicts two scenes of male—male sex. On the "Greek" Honosexuality in ancient greece, a bearded, mature man is penetrating a young but muscularly developed male in a rear-entry position. The young man, probably meant to be 17 or 18, holds on to a sexual apparatus for maintaining an otherwise awkward or uncomfortable
Honosexuality in ancient greece position.
A child-slave watches the scene furtively through a door ajar. The "Roman" side of Honosexuality in ancient greece cup shows a puer delicatusage 12 to 13, held for intercourse in the arms of an older male, clean-shaven and fit. The bearded pederast may be with a partner who Honosexuality in ancient greece in ancient greece more freely and with a look of pleasure. His counterpart, who has a more severe haircut, appears to be Roman, and thus uses a slave boy; the myrtle wreath he wears symbolizes his role as an " erotic conqueror ".
A man or boy who took the "receptive" role in sex was variously called cinaeduspathicusexoletusconcubinus male concubinespintria "analist"puer "boy"pullus "chick"pusiodelicatus especially in the phrase puer delicatus"exquisite" or "dainty boy"mollis "soft", used more generally as an
Honosexuality in ancient greece quality counter to aggressive masculinitytener "delicate"debilis "weak" or "disabled"effeminatusdiscinctus "loose-belted"pisciculi, spinthriae, and morbosus "sick".
As Amy Richlin has noted, "' gay ' is not exact, 'penetrated' is not self-defined, ' passive ' misleadingly connotes inaction" in translating this group of words into English.
Some terms, such as exoletusspecifically refer to an adult; Romans who were socially marked as "masculine" did not confine their same-sex penetration of prostitutes or slaves to those who were "boys" under the age of Martial describes, for example, the case Honosexuality in ancient greece an older man who played the passive role and let a younger slave occupy the active role.
Cinaedus is a derogatory word denoting a Honosexuality in ancient greece who was gender-deviant; his choice of sex acts, or preference in sexual partner, was secondary to his perceived deficiencies as a "man" vir. The clothing, use of cosmetics, and mannerisms of a cinaedus marked him as effeminate but the same effeminacy that Roman men might find alluring in a puer became unattractive in the physically mature male.
Originally, a cinaedus Greek kinaidos was a professional dancer, characterized as non-Roman or "Eastern"; the word itself may come from a language of Asia Minor. His performance featured tambourine -playing and movements of the buttocks that suggested anal intercourse. Some Roman kept a male Honosexuality in ancient greece concubinus"one who lies with; a bed-mate" before they married a woman.
Eva Cantarella has described this form of concubinage as "a stable sexual relationship, not exclusive but Honosexuality in ancient greece. In a wedding hymnCatullus  portrays the groom's concubinus as anxious about his future and fearful of abandonment. He plays an role in the ceremonies, distributing the traditional nuts that boys threw rather like rice or birdseed in the modern Western tradition.
The relationship with a concubinus might be discreet or more open: The concubinaa female concubine who might be free, held a protected legal status under Roman lawbut the concubinus did not, since he was typically a slave. Pathicus was a "blunt" word for a male who was penetrated sexually. It derived from the unattested Greek adjective pathikosfrom the verb paskheinequivalent to the Latin deponent patior, pati, passus"undergo, submit to, endure, suffer".
Pathicus and cinaedus are often not Honosexuality in ancient greece in Honosexuality in ancient greece by Latin writers, but cinaedus may be a more general term a male not in conformity with the role of vira "real man", while pathicus specifically denotes an adult male who takes the sexually Honosexuality in ancient greece role. His sexuality was not defined by the gender of the person using him as a receptacle for sex, but rather his desire to be so used.
Because in Roman culture a man who penetrates another adult male almost always expresses contempt or revenge, the pathicus might be seen as more akin to the sexual masochist in his experience of pleasure.
Honosexuality in ancient greece penetrated orally or anally by a man or by a woman with a dildobut showed no desire for penetrating nor having his own penis Honosexuality in ancient greece. He might also be dominated by a woman who compels him to perform cunnilingus. In discourse of sexuality, puer "boy" was a role as well as an age group. The puer delicatus was an "exquisite" or "dainty" child-slave chosen by his master for his beauty as a " boy toy ",  also referred to as deliciae "sweets" or "delights".
Pueri delicati might be idealized in poetry. In the erotic elegies of Tibullusthe delicatus Marathus wears lavish and expensive clothing. Pullus was a term for a young animal, and particularly a chick. It was an affectionate word  traditionally used for a boy puer  who was loved by someone "in an obscene sense". The lexicographer Festus provides a definition and illustrates with a comic anecdote. Quintus Fabius Maximus Eburnusa consul in BC and later a censor known for his moral severity, earned his cognomen meaning " Ivory " the modern equivalent might be " Porcelain " because of his Honosexuality in ancient greece good looks candor.
Eburnus was said to have been struck by lightning on his buttocks, perhaps a reference to a birthmark. Although the sexual inviolability of underage male citizens is usually emphasized, this anecdote is among the evidence that even the most well-born youths might go through a phase in which they could be viewed as "sex objects".
The 4th-century Gallo-Roman poet Ausonius records the word pullipremo"chick-squeezer", which he was used by early satirist Lucilius. Pusio is etymologically related to puer, and means "boy, lad". It often had a distinctly sexual or sexually demeaning connotation.
Scultimidonus "asshole-bestower"  was rare and "florid" slang  that appears in a fragment from the early Roman satirist Lucilius.
The abstract noun impudicitia adjective impudicus was the negation of pudicitia"sexual morality, chastity". As a characteristic of males, it often implies the willingness to be penetrated. Impudicitia might be associated with behaviors in young men who retained a degree of boyish attractiveness but were old enough to be expected to behave according to masculine norms.
Julius Caesar was accused of bringing the notoriety of infamia upon himself, both when he was about 19, for taking the passive role in an affair with King Nicomedes of Bithyniaand later for many adulterous affairs with women. Latin had such a wealth of words for men outside the masculine norm that some scholars 
Honosexuality in ancient greece for the existence of a homosexual subculture at Rome; that is, although the noun "homosexual" has no straightforward equivalent in Latin, literary sources reveal a pattern of behaviors among a minority of free men that indicate same-sex preference or orientation.
Plautus mentions a street known
Honosexuality in ancient greece male prostitutes. Juvenal states that such men scratched their heads with a finger to identify themselves. Apuleius indicates that cinaedi might form social alliances for mutual enjoyment, such as hosting dinner parties. In his novel The Golden Asshe describes one group who jointly purchased and shared a concubinus.
On one occasion, they invited a "well-endowed" young hick rusticanus Honosexuality in ancient greece to their party, and took turns performing oral sex on him.
Other scholars, primarily those who Honosexuality in ancient greece from the perspective of " cultural constructionism ", maintain that there is not an identifiable social group of males who would have self-identified as "homosexual" as a community.
Although in general the Romans regarded marriage as a male—female union for the purpose of producing children, a few scholars believe that in Honosexuality in ancient greece early Imperial period some male couples were celebrating traditional marriage rites in the presence of friends.
Both and Juvenal refer to marriage between males as something that occurs not infrequently, although they disapprove of it. Various ancient sources state that the emperor Nero celebrated two public weddings with men, once taking the role of the bride with a freedman Pythagorasand once the groom with Sporus ; there may have been a third in which he was the bride. Other mature men at his court had husbands, or said they had husbands in imitation of the emperor.
The earliest reference in Latin literature to a marriage between males occurs in the Philippics of Cicerowho insulted Mark for being a slut in his youth until Curio "established you in Honosexuality in ancient greece fixed and Honosexuality in ancient greece marriage matrimoniumas if he had given you a stola ", the traditional garment of a married woman.
Roman law addressed the rape of a male citizen as early as the 2nd century BC,  when it was ruled that even a man who was "disreputable and questionable" famosus, related to infamisand suspiciosus had the same right other free men not to have his body subjected to forced sex.
The slave's owner, however, could prosecute the rapist for damage. Fears of mass rape following a military defeat
Honosexuality in ancient
Honosexuality in ancient greece equally to male and female potential victims.
The threat of one man to subject Honosexuality in ancient greece to anal or oral rape irrumatio is a theme of invective poetry, most notably in Catullus's notorious Carmen 16 and was a form of masculine braggadocio.
In a collection of twelve anecdotes dealing with assaults on chastity, the historian Valerius Maximus features male victims in equal number to female. The Roman soldier, like any free Honosexuality in ancient greece respectable Roman male of status, was expected to show self-discipline in matters of sex. Sex
Honosexuality in ancient greece fellow soldiers, however, violated the Roman decorum against intercourse with another freeborn male.
The extent to which the Greeks engaged in and tolerated campy relations is open to some debate. For a long bout the subject was taboo and remains controversial even today.
Regardless, it is undeniable that pertinences we would call homosexual, signally between men and youths, played an important role in Prehistoric Greek society. Traditionally these liaisons involved an older man and a youth and lasted until the youth reached full adulthood.
Thereafter this type of relationship was frowned upon because bodily love was perceived as again involving one person in a position of submission, something that was unacceptable for a choke-full Greek citizen. In cities such as Sparta and Thebes, there appeared to be a exceptionally strong emphasis on relationships betwixt men and youths, and it was considered an important involvement of their education. On the night of their wedding, Strict wives were expected to fish story in a dark room and dress as a man - presumably to help their husbands make the transition from tribade to heterosexual love.
While in Thebes, the general Epaminondas commanded a regiment composed of pairs of lovers. This 'Band of Lovers' became a formidable fighting force, with lover defending lover until death.
Homosexuality and pedophilia in ancient Greece greatly concerned many researchers who were mainly interested in highlighting the social aspect of this phenomenon in ancient Greek society.
An important source on the subject was the paintings of a man and his lover in attic black and red figured pottery, up to the end of the 5th century BC. Another main source was the information that derived from the texts of ancient Greek literature, especially poetry. Homosexuality was not only referring to relationships between males, but it was also manifested in lesbian love. It is believed that in the Homeric world homosexuality was not favored.
In Greek society of the archaic period, the restriction of women at home, the satisfaction of sexual needs with courtesans, the marriage for the purpose of maintaining and managing the property, put women aside, marginalizing them in terms of social life, impeding the cultivation of emotional relationships between sexes. At the same time, in the society of those times, the aristocratic ideal, the constant communication of men during military training and the war, the male nudity in sports and the promotion of beauty and bravery in athletic contests, as well as the gatherings and the entertainment of men at the symposia, created a suitable substrate in which male homosexuality could develop.
In this context, pedophile relationships were developed mainly during the archaic period, as recorded on vase paintings, where a mature man developed a special relationship with a teenager of the same social class. The mature man had the role of mentor for the juvenile, he would look after him and cover his living expenses and education cost. In this relationship, exhibiting predominantly the social dimension of an initiation process and introduction to adult life, the erotic homosexual intercourse could find a place to flourish.
The above-mentioned relationship could not last forever, given that this would later transform into an emotional connection of friendship and trust. Besides, the constant homosexual relationships and male prostitution were considered to be reprehensible behaviors. Regarding the lesbian love, the main example was Sappho and her poems that praised love between women.
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Should i get pissed off?Homosexuality and pedophilia in ancient Greece greatly concerned many researchers who were mainly interested in highlighting the social aspect of this. This was the world of ancient Greece, a supposed gay paradise in which Wilde's response has become a classic of homosexual apologia..
Homosexuality in Ancient Greece
Homosexuality in ancient Greece
Some social constructionists have even gone so far as to deny that sexual preference was a significant category for the ancients or that any kind of subculture based on sexual object-choice existed in the ancient world," p. And yet there was always another side to the story. They were the targets of ridicule by the other citizens, especially comedy writers. Ovid finds it "a desire known to no one, freakish, novel In this interpretation, the formal custom reflects myth and ritual.
In classical antiquity Especially, writers such as Herodotus ,  Plato ,  Xenophon ,  Athenaeus  and many others explored aspects of homosexuality in ancient Greece. The most widespread and socially pregnant form of same-sex sexual relations in ancient Greece was between adult men and pubescent or adolescent boys, known as pederasty marriages in Ancient Greece between men and women were and age structured, with men in their thirties commonly attractive wives in their early teens.
It is unclear how such relations midway women were regarded in the unspecialized society, but examples do exist as far back as the time of Sappho. The former Greeks did not conceive of carnal orientation as a social identifier as modern Western societies have done. Greek society did not distinguish sexual fascination or behavior before the gender of the participants, but rather by the role that each participant played in the sex personify, that of on the move penetrator or uninvolved penetrated.
The maximum common form of same-sex relationships tween males in Greece was "paiderastia" pederasty meaning "boy love".
It was a relationship between an older male and an adolescent adolescents. A boy was considered a "boy" until he was able to multiply a full beard. In Athens the older man was called erastes.
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The death of Hyacinth, Giovanni Battista Tiepolo, circa Homoerotic themes occur throughout the works of poets writing during the reign of Augustus , including elegies by Tibullus  and Propertius ,  the second Eclogue of Vergil , and several poems by Horace. Greek words for a woman who prefers sex with another woman include hetairistria compare hetaira , "courtesan" or "companion" , tribas plural tribades , and Lesbia ; Latin words include the loanword tribas , fricatrix "she who rubs" , and virago.
Homosexuality in ancient Rome often differs markedly from the contemporary West. Sexual Deviance and Society: When the sources compare and contrast Athenian homosexuality with, say, Theban or Spartan homosexuality, they are not referring to undercover reportage - "My night spent with the Army of Lovers:
Homosexuality in the militaries of fossilized Greece was regarded as contributing to morale. Some Greek philosophers wrote on the subject of homosexuality in the military. In Plato 's Symposium , the interlocutor Phaedrus commented on the power of male sexual interrelationships to improve bravery in the military: However, the Symposium is a dialectical exploration of the nature of true love, in which Phaedrus' views are speedily found to be inadequate compared to the transcendent vision of Socrates, who:.
He preaches no avoidance of the contest with appetite, but rather the attainment of a definite victory surpassing the lower elements of love-passion, and the pursuit of loveliness on higher and higher levels until, as in a unanticipated flash, its ultimate and satisfying essence is revealed. Xenophon Measure, while not criticizing the likenesss themselves, ridiculed militaries that made them the sole basis of unit formation:. According to form, the Greeks structured military units along tribal lines , a practice attributed to Nestor in the Homeric epics.
The Theban military commander Pammenes , nevertheless, is supposed to have advocated military organization based on pairs of lovers: Homer 's Nestor was not well skilled in ordering an army when he advised the Greeks to nobility tribe and tribe For men of the same tribe small-minded value one another when dangers press; but a band cemented by friendship grounded upon darling is never to be disturbed.